This applies especially when the new thing is not reliable, dependable, capable or solid, as in the case of an ENFP personality type.
🙂 Give your Gold Beaver time to get to know you slowly.
Go have fun with your other Tigger and Piglet friends and don’t expect him to tag along. Have you ever tried to not say anything while you count to 10 during a meeting?
Everyone needs an outlet for their true nature, and your sweetie will appreciate the quiet time alone to sort out his or her own thoughts. If you do this during the whole meeting, you might never get a chance to speak at all! Your ISTJ will grow toward you, but it will be at a slower pace than you want.
The person was an ENFP (an Extraverted, flexible green), dating an ISTJ (an Introverted, structured gold), and wondering how to make a relationship work between two opposite personality types.
I’m a definite ENFP and my husband is a definite ISTJ.
Appreciation is something we all enjoy, and complementing natural traits reassures the person that you see and like the “real” him or her.
2) ISTJs tend to, by nature, be wary and suspicious of all things new.
These characteristics are grouped together to form a common personality type, and there are some interesting findings behind these studies.
People identified as type ENTJ (extraversion, intuition, thinking and judging) earn more income than others.
Be a touch less eager, a tad less available, a sliver more involved in your own life than you normally are.
Give him a chance to grow toward you by moving away just a little.
Your person might be an ISTJ, but s/he is a human first.