Don’t worry if someone you like has not been online for a while. Anyone with a profile on the site wants to be contacted, even if their status indicates they have not been online in a few months.
Then log back in regularly to see responses and look for more members.
REF Once you find some members who interest you, view their profiles and send them flirts.
REF This is easy to fix by updating your gender preference on your profile. You will need to update your location in your profile. Standard members must upgrade in order to read the message, but don’t let that discourage you from sending a message to a standard member. To access your message Inbox and send a message: To tell if your message has been read. Standard members who receive personal messages from a premium member will receive a notification and a link to the premium sender’s profile. The standard member will receive an immediate notification of your message and that you are a premium member, and she/he will likely upgrade. In your Outbox, you will see an envelope next to each message you have sent.
You can only tell if messages to premium members have been read.
REF To temporarily change your search settings while you are in the search mode: Note: Making adjustments to settings using this feature will not change the settings in your profile.
So you can go back and review what you’ve done and also change your like/dislikes.
Standard members receive a notification from us sent to their personal inboxes (Hotmail, Yahoo, Gmail, etc).
Flirts (messages) to standard members are not opened on the site.
An arrow to the left of a message indicates that you have already replied to the most recent message you received from that member.