One big question: Are boys and girls really equally at risk to become victims or abusers?Some studies suggest they are and that girls may even be more likely than boys to lash out physically.Additional new research shows teens who abuse their girlfriends and boyfriends often share a past as middle-school bullies.
When girls are the aggressors, he says, "it tends to be low-level behaviors, light hitting, name calling, things like that.
When you look at serious sexual and severe physical assault, we tend to see a bit more from the boys than the girls."Dorothy Espelage, a researcher at the University of Illinois-Urbana-Champaign, says, "Without measures of fear, severity and injury, we need to be cautious" about interpreting the new nationwide survey results.
Lead author Michele Ybarra, a researcher with the Center for Innovative Public Health Research in San Clemente, Calif., said in an e-mail that she could not discuss the study because it is under review for publication in a scientific journal.
In general, data presented at a conference are not considered as authoritative as results reviewed by outside experts and then published.
Remember that you cannot change your batterer, and in time, the violence will get worse, sometimes lethal. Talk to an adult you can trust, locate a shelter or agency serving victims of intimate partner violence/domestic abuse in your community, or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233). Or you can text “loveis” to 77054 (standard text rates apply).
Youths report emotional, physical and sexual abuse In 2012, the National Dating Abuse Helpline was contacted 39,938 times.In the new nationwide survey, which included 1,058 youths ages 14 to 20, 41% of girls and young women and 37% of boys and young men said they had been victims of dating abuse; 35% of girls and 29% of boys said they had physically, emotionally or sexually abused a partner, according to a news release from the association.Girls were more likely to say they had physically abused their partners; boys were "much more likely" to say they had sexually abused someone, the association says.Espelage worked on the survey with Ybarra and on another study to be presented today which shows links between middle school bullying and teen dating violence.That study followed 625 youths from middle school to high school and found that those who admitted verbally bullying peers as middle-schoolers were seven times more likely than other young people to report physically abusing their dates four years later.Let them support you and help you end the relationship and stay safe.